seriously, like wtf...
I've met 5 guys for dates now (including the one guy I made out w/) and have not really found any of them attractive. The one last night was dec looking, but i just wasn't digging him. When i go out and meet gay guys I rarely find them attractive... like maybe 1/30. And right now i feel like I actually don't have a sex drive...
It's really bothering me actually It's like I don't want to do anything sexual with anyone. Maybe it's just cuz i'm tired, I'm not sure.
Also... Last night I found a pair of breasts somewhat attractive... like wtf! Sex drive, please be consistent.
It's weird cuz last week i was unspeakably horny and ready to get it on with guys.
But yea anyways. Last night was good just hung out with this new guy, he's pretty chill and could be a good friend, and maybe more if i start getting attracted to him.
I just feel bad cuz all the guys I meet or go out with seem to be into me and it's never reciprocated. I don't think i can really control who i'm into, but it's kinda frustrating that I'm not into anyone and seem to have no sex drive...
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7 comments:
don't worry man. you'll find someone you're attracted to soon enough. and who knows, i think it's definitely true that you can grow to be physically attracted to someone. it is kind of important in the beginning though. maybe it's just on off bunch of guys. good luck man! at least you're meeting people and getting out there.
Not wanting to jump every guy you see doesn't mean you're not gay.
:-P
It just means you don't want to jump every guy you see.
:-D
if some guy still makes yer head snap as he walks by, u be gay dude.
HCI sed it well.
steevo
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umm. dont want to sound mean or anythng.. but just as long as u dont mislead the guys, its normal that u dont find them all attractive.
i only find 1 guy in my yr level decent - and the rest are more or less slobs under my opinion (o.O) lol
one day u sure will find a guy u can feel mutually in love with (^.^)
I agree with Mr. HCI, Steevo, and Wat-So-Eva. The more people you date, the more there will be who aren't attractive (in absolute numbers). But you also give yourself that many more chances of finding one you are attracted to.
Beyond that, if you seriously think you may be attracted to girls, don't try to force an answer to the question at the top of this post. Just let it become obvious as you go along. Because it will become obvious.
Well, I guess you are looking for the one, not just anyone. The quest for love is highly unpredictable.
I wouldn't worry about the breast thing - I'm gay, but every once in a while I'll see a woman and think "Damn, that's nice".
And as far as not finding guys attractive - what do you think you're using to measure that? Looks, personality, something else? I find that often times people who I would never look twice at start to grow on me, once I get to know them. Next thing you know, I have a mini-infatuation thing going on. Maybe you're meeting people in the wrong setting.
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