So....
I came out to my mom.
Like 10 minutes ago
I'm in a state of shock right now
Can't really think straight
It went well
She said she loves me no matter what
and that she just wants me to be happy again
I told her (on the phone) because she was trying to figure out why I am so depressed
I told her i couldn't tell her why i was depressed, and that coming to my uni was the worst decision ever. She cried
then we hung up
then i called her back
and asked her if she would love me no matter what. She said yes.
and told her
So we'll see how my dad takes the news.
I'm scared and in a state of shock right now.
I may be terrified right now, but things may get better.
I guess if you pray, pray that my dad takes the news well... or if you meditate or whatever else people can do...
but seriously..
I am scared shitless and elated at the same time
I'll put up a better post about this whole thing latter
Jordo
Core memory unlocked!
5 years ago
14 comments:
wow! after that previous post this is about the last thing I would have expected but wow! I'm glad it went well for you - more courage than me!
wow just take your time and think through things. it sounds like your mom will be ok with it, it may take some time(she is in shock too) it is a big step. congrats!
Wow! Wonderful reaction and good for you!
Of course you can't think straight . . . remember?
JOrdo
I will prat for you and your father being as accepting as your mother
you took a huge step today and i hope it is rewarding for you and the rest of your life.
i am very proud of you fo ryour courage and i hope everyone you know loves and accept you
take care and be safe
bob
Shocking, indeed.
But a really really great shock! You're cut out for this gay thing after all. Hold onto the high.
Whoo! Go you! I'm thinking of doing a very similar thing soon myself... If I think about it I'll get too scared though.
Damn! Balls on the table! LOL
As we have discussed, mom prolly knew. Did u swear her to secrecy? Hope not. Let her get dad ready...
Later you can ask her if she suspected all along...
Moms r usually kewl. Dads take longer... sometimes. If he reacts not as well as mom did, be patient. Keep telling him u love him and need his love too. Mom will fix it in time. Let him see the tears. It's really OK!
YAY for you, Jordon.
hugs n luv ya,
steevo
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KUDOS DUDE!!!
congratulations! it's adrenaline rushing isn't it??
good luck with the rest of the family :)
congratulations! that is a huge step, i wish i had your balls, man. i am really happy for you man. *hugs*
Great move. Parents is the hardest. I'll keep my fingers crossed and will pray as well.
massive hug. Well done. Hugely big step buddy, and we all pray you'll never look back from here.
So proud of you :D
I have NO DOUBT that coming out was the best decision you have made.
It's a brave move and you wont regret it!
Stephen
A HUGE HUG J! Join the Club!
Yer Dad will likely NOT be as understanding, but he WILL come round.
Hold on to the fact that your doing what millions of us have done before you! You're in the very best of company! Hold me hand.
Boy, how did I miss this post. I'm very proud of you. You figured out that being depressed and alone it to horrible to keep to yourself. Coming out to your mom was such a brave thing......I'm sure you will never regret the courage it took.
And to all the other guys that post comments on here and are struggling with their coming out process.....it's just that, a process. The time was right for Jordon......your time will come too. Keep your heads up.
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